I love living with horses. Not riding, petting, grooming, learning from…. Ok, I lie, of course I love all that stuff too, that is a given, but there’s something about the day to day living with them and the unexpected gifts that come from the basic, routine, on-going being there and caring for them that still takes me by surprise.
Like tonight, when it was getting dark out, freezing cold actually, and I have just finished putting a blanket on my grouchy 20 year old appendix mare, Gypsy, who doesn’t always love to be touched or bothered with when she’s eating from her round bale in her paddock and she let’s me do it anyway without a kick or a bite, thank god, (just some ear pinning). I like to blanket her because she is super sensitive to cold weather and will violently shake all over without one, so I am thinking somewhere deep down she gets that she’s better off with one than without. And even just the completion of that act and the knowing that she will be all toasty warm no matter what the weather brings tonight makes me feel so peaceful and grateful inside. Wow, something so easy but which brings such a sense of well-being and pleasure.
And as I am leaving her paddock, one of my boarder’s horses walks near, whose owner never comes out to see her, and gives me a look and I give her one right back, exchanging the information that I’m here for her, too, no matter what — that I will feed, water, groom and take care of her to the best of my ability for as long as she requires it. Basically, that I have her back. And I know that she knows it. I don’t give her a pat, I don’t say a word to her, I don’t spend more than a moment acknowledging her. But as I leave her and Gypsy’s paddock to go in for the night, I feel this overwhelming sense of communion with her wash over me and the startling sense that the universe has my back too.
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Jennilynne Coley, Sharon Warren, Rachel Silber and 17 others like this.
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Judy Knowles Who else doesn’t like to be bothered while eating!?
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Ronald H Castelino Amy, did you know you could be an amazing author? Are you? Sorry I didn’t know. Hope to read some of your books someday. What’s say?
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Judy Knowles Baby, the part about Kita brought tears to my eyes. I’m so glad that you love just exactly the way that you do
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Amy Hirsch Ronald H Castelino, you are a man after my own heart! Flattery and appreciation will get you everywhere! Thank U!
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Amy Hirsch Judy Knowles i would have absolutely no idea who you are referring to in your eating comment.
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Cassidy Noelle Edwards Reading your posts gives me chills! We seriously think so much alike it’s scary!
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Judy Knowles Cassidy Noelle Edwards yes y’all do and that’s the truth!
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